Our Heavenly Father wants to help us in all that we do, but we must first ask and only then shall we receive.
2 Nephi 32:9 reads:
"...but behold, I say unto you that ye must pray always and not faint...than ye must not perform any thing unto the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate thy performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of they soul."
All our love,
McAllen 1st Relief Society Presidency